Nothing strikes fear in the heart of couples more than articles describing the signs of marital destruction. Unfortunately, the Gottman’s Four Horsemen have been misread this way. Every relationship shows these signs. Every. Single. One. The healthiest, most loving, kindest people do these things. The only relationship devoid of these behaviors is the one that is dead of life already where there is no mutual investment left. Check out Gottman’s Four Horsemen here; alongside their remedies.